Hey, so I'm a woman and I know that a lot of guys always
wonder 'what should I do?' or 'what do they like?'
Here's a list of things we do/don't like:
1) We love when you come up behind us and hold/hug us from behind and/or
hold our waist.
2) Make sure the first kiss you give her is passionate.
Every girl's dream is to have that first kiss be amazing.
3) If its a girl you've kind of been interested in for a while
and you know she's interested too, ASK HER FOR THOSE DIGITS!
=] trust me, She's dying for you to ask.
4) Never wait for the girl to make the first move, we hate
it.
5) When you drop her off from a date, walk her up to her
door, hug her for a good 5 seconds, tell her you had an
amazing time, look into her eyes [make sure she's looking
back] and lean in for a short but passionate kiss on the
lips [if you think its to early, just leave it at a hug
unless you know she's waiting for you to kiss her].
6) Call her when you want to, but make sure your not over
doing it, if she seems kind of annoyed, AH STOP!! Also if there's an awkward silence neverrrrr everrrr everrrr leave it
up to her to say something.
7) If she brings you to meet her parents, RESPECT HER
PARENTS!!! Don't say anything vulgar or gross around them,
keep in mind they are testing you to see if your right for
their daughter. If you respect her parents she'll get this
gut feeling that your an even more amazing person
8) Don't be a typical guy around her and fart and burp and do
guyish things, really we find it disgusting, I know I know '
everyone does it ', yeah but it's different around a bf or gf.
Just don't do it -_-
9) For a first date, take her some place like a beach late
at night or into the city park when no ones there so its
just you two. we find it really romantic.
10) Hold her hand.
11) Hold her, kiss her or even invite her to go places in
front of your friends, a girl HATES it when you act like she's just 'some girl' around your friends, be prepared to be
called a typical jerk if you do that.
12) Don't get in the habit of saying I love you too much
unless you REALLY mean it, because then guys tend to over
use it and it makes us feel like you don't mean it anymore.
13) When you first tell her you love her, make it special. Make sure your alone and try to tell her when she's sad, we
love it when guys do things like this. You should comfort her, hold
her, turn her towards you, hold her close, look DEEP into
her eyes [don't rush that part], move your face towards her
ear and hold her waist softly whispering, "I love you" or if
not make sure your, Again, alone somewhere special.
14) Girls absolutely LOVE it when a guy whispers.
15) If you have a special talent, any talent really, tell
her you did it for HER. For example: if your a football
player, after the game, tell her you played your hardest for
her.
16) If your trying to show off, don't get cocky, we can't
stand cocky.
17) Always remember to compliment her.
18) Show her off to the world.
19) Even in front of hot girls, make sure you treat her like she's way prettier and that you have
absolutely no interest
in them.
20) DON'T WORRY! It's only natural to think other girls are
hot or have something slip out in front of a gf. Just try
NOT to slip up in front of her, and guys, really make
sure she doesn't catch you giving other girls the 'CALL ME
BABE ;]' sign. It could be her best friend.
21) Don't talk about other girls to us
for example: if she asks why you haven't answered your phone,
don't be stupid and tell her something like, Oh sorry babe I
was hanging with a friend of mine. Her name is... [so on and so
fourth]. Don't do it, it gives us an idea that your just
another player.
I hope that helped =)
-Savannah